Jun 14 2009

Alcohol Dependence – My Life As I Planned It

Ever since I was a young man in college, I dreamt of a life dependent on alcohol. Yes sir, work hard and party hard. Long days in the office with longer happy hours and a few two-martini lunches peppered in were for me. Loss of focus, trembling, night sweats and alienation of my family and friends were exactly what I had on my goal sheet.

Of course the preceding paragraph is written ‘tongue-in-cheek’; however, if you’ve known an alcoholic or someone who just called themselves “A Drinker” you can probably identify with this paragraph. Because of its progressive nature, alcoholism is particularly damaging and deadly because those affected have the illusion that they are in control. They say things like, “I don’t need to drink- I just like to drink.”

So some pertinent questions one who drinks excessively should ask themselves are:

  • When did I stop designing and planning my life?
  • And how did I become a drinker?
  • Is this happiness?
  • Is this the life I want?

There are no easy solutions, but what’s important for all of us, is critical for someone fighting addiction to alcohol: Focus on the life you want.

Focus not on your failures, the addiction or cravings, but on the life that you want to regain. Lay out a strategy. Write down your goals and the steps required to reach them. Think about how reaching those goals and how becoming free from alcohol would make you feel and how it would enhance the quality of your relationships and your career.

Alcohol dependence and craving is not easy to tackle on your own. There are many alcohol treatment plans available. Find one that is right for you and take action. Get help today and focus on your new tomorrow – now!

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2 Responses to “Alcohol Dependence – My Life As I Planned It”

  1. Anamikaon 18 Jun 2009 at 11:59 pm

    Good job you are doing by spreading awareness about alcohol addiction. Many people just start in for fun, show off or to get acceptance of friends or society but then get trapped in this bad habit and go to the extents of ruining health by making it an addiction.

  2. Bill4Sobrietyon 21 Jul 2009 at 10:08 am

    For anonymity sakes please feel free to call me Bill, I am an alcoholic whom has been through rehab twice and am discovering the beauty of sobriety.

    Great blog post!

    Bill

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